It’s not that I don’t believe in it, but the idea of a perfect person for someone is confusing. There is just so many people out there, I can’t imagine only one for the rest of my life.
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy. -Wayne Dyer
I seriously just want my chuck bass.
And then he just skipped off into his fucking world with my fucking basket.